My preference is to have very dense display settings because I enjoy having the extra screen real estate. You would find the fonts on my devices too small (I know my wife certainly does ).
Best to let the user decide for themselves, especially when the adjustment is so simple. There are just has so many diverse preferences, there is no way to honor each person's opinion.
I think defaulting to the native resolution of the hardware is a reasonable starting point. In the case an opinion must be expressed in the default setting, it should reflect the preference of the maintainer of the spin.
If the person wants to have the experience of using macOS, then they should just use macOS.
In choosing to install a completely different operating system with a completely different desktop environment, I think it is reasonable to expect some things to be a little different than what the user may be accustomed to.
Sure. We dont need to make their life harder. I also think that most people do like to use the scaling they are used to. Most people here on the forums dont use 50% scaling, I am sure.
Why would you want to insist? Changing your tool, is exactly that, not the same.
Advertising Linux as a one-to-one Mac replacement, is just fallacy.
OTOH, when someone likes something better than something else, what is the big problem of not having it?
Nevertheless, thanks for the request.
If there is no better justification, I would close the topic.